Monday, 9 March 2015

My Truth

So .....
Sometimes in life you will need help, either financially,  emotionally or sometimes even a roof over your head.

I've been in all of the above scenarios and scary to admit,  but I had NO ONE . I always had to make due.  Taking care of my daughter,  working and studying.  I vowed that if the situation was reversed I will help those in need.  Family,  friends or even strangers.   Funny though if you have experienced hardships you are more sympathetic and empathetic.

Unfortunately also you find people that will use you and your pure intentions to their own advantage, and to the helpers undoing........

God wants us to love our neighbours and He wants us to help those in need, but when the situation is putting your relationship or your safety in jeopardy it's time to say, God Bless and take care.

Just, My Truth..

Sunday, 1 March 2015

My Truth "Family"

Family is definitely not only blood,  but I truly includes your closest and dearest people around you.

The once that you allow into your precious heart.  And our heart's are sooooo precious and sensitive and needs to be handled with care.

Unfortunately most of the injuries your precious heart receives are given to by your blood family. Not always on purpose, but yes, sometimes. .....

That's exactly in that moment and in those places of our hearts where we then start to adopt friends as family.  One of the most painful lessons for me was to accept that often the adopted family loves you with a deeper love and has a more profound understanding of your specific needs and wants.

When the healing starts and you forgive and set free the people that did injured your heart you don't naturally grow close to them again . The walls have been built and rebuilding trust can takes years!!!!!

I'm overwhelmed by the gratitude and love I have for my adopted family,  and I pray that God will Bless everyone that's reading this now, to also find those special friends and adopt them as family

Blessings